How to do the first look pose
Also called: first look photos, first look reveal
The private moment before the ceremony when one partner turns around to see the other dressed for the wedding.
See the two of you in this pose
Step by step
- One partner stands with their back to where the other will walk up.
- The other approaches quietly and taps a shoulder (or calls their name).
- The waiting partner turns around; react however you actually feel.
- Stay in the moment: hug, look at each other, take your time.
Tips
- Choose a quiet spot with soft shade so faces are evenly lit.
- A first look frees up time after the ceremony for couple portraits and family photos.
Should you do a first look?
A first look moves your couple portraits to before the ceremony, which frees the hour after it for family photos and your cocktail hour. Couples who prefer the traditional reveal at the aisle skip it; there's no wrong answer.
Variations
A first look with a parent or your wedding party. A first touch, where you hold hands around a door or corner without seeing each other, often used to exchange letters. A private first look with no photographer, if you'd rather keep the moment to yourselves.
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